What is boylove

Greetings From Celebrityfreakz.com boylove is a relationship between a boy who has a desire for a close and intimate friendship with an older male, and an older boy or man whose love for that boy encompasses enjoyment of the boy's companionship and a desire to provide a mentoring and nurturing environment, but also includes a definite pedosexual attraction as well. It is, however, mutually agreed by responsible boylovers that any physical expression of this pedosexuality is only acceptable with the understanding, encouragement, and appropriate consent of the boy involved. Even then, under the present barbaric legal system, such consensual sexual activities are considered a criminal act. boylover should promote a positive life for his boy by being positive and upbeat himself. There will be times, of course, when things do not go well, but a boylover should try to show his boy how to look for solutions to problems, and not to dwell on the problems themselves. should be pleasant and friendly to all boys. He should be on the lookout for opportunities to bring a ray of sunshine into a boy's life, especially a troubled boy. boylover should be alert to the dangers that boys encounter, and should, when the situation calls for it, be ready to intervene. However, he must be careful not to stifle his boy's curiosity and sense of adventure and experimentation by being overly protective. boylover should strive to set a good example for his boy. There are many people in boys' lives telling them what to do, but very few using their own life to show the boy what to do. On the other hand, a boylover should not pretend that he is perfect, and should accept responsibility for his own mistakes. boylover should always pay attention to what his boy has to say. Boys have their own minds, and, given the opportunity, have some very thoughtful and insightful things to say. But most adults don't really bother to hear what boys have to say, and soon the boys communicate only with their peers, where they may or may not get the truth.boylover should consider his boy's needs before his own. A boy knows what he wants and likes, he also knows what he doesn't want and doesn't like, and a boylover should be careful and sensitive to be aware of these. A boy, however, is largely dependant on adults to supply his physical and emotional needs, and can do little to change his circumstances. An adult, on the other hand, normally has many options from which to choose. A responsible boylover should love his boy unconditionally, even when his boy is being unlovable, as boys sometimes are. Boys are volatile humans, as are all of us, and they need to know that the love they receive is not going to be withdrawn if they misbehave. A responsible boylover should always show that his boy is important to him, and worthy of love, appreciation, and respect. Boys are quick to sense when they are being tolerated rather than wanted, and this is hurtful to them. A responsible boylover should never be ashamed of his love for his boy, although prudence dictates that such love should be demonstrated in different ways under different circumstances. Some boys are more able to comprehend the love that is shown them than others, and some boys are able to respond to that love more so than others. But there should never be, nor need to be, any sense of shame in the relationship of a boylover and his loved boy. A responsible boylover should keep in mind that he also has a life of his own to lead, and, while doing and being all of the things above for his boy, he must maintain a balanced and wholesome life style for his own benefit, as well as for his boy's benefit. A responsible boylover should realize from the outset that the relationship with his boy is transitory. He must never lose sight of the fact that a boy is a boy for only a few short years, and that the love that they both enjoy and cherish must evolve and change with the seasons of the boy's life. In the ideal progression, the love, care, and concern of a boylover for his loved boy will become the mutual love, care, and concern between an older adult and his younger adult friend. But in any case, the boylover must be prepared to graciously and unreservedly accept the inevitable time when his beloved fledgling must take wing and fly free.